Altar Calls and the "Sinner's Prayer"

FACT:

Altar calls and the "Sinner's Prayer" are not required elements of ministry. Neither of these practices were employed by the early church. In fact, both became popular only during the evangelical era of the early 20th century. Many cite Charles Finney as the creator of the modern altar call, which he used to create a sense of "urgency and anxiety" in the 1830's for those who heard the message. The practice continued through the likes of D.L. Moody and Billy Graham, who fueled its popularity. With that, the "Sinner's Prayer" gained momentum as a method to ensure consciousness of salvation to those who stepped forward.

While many modern ministries and ministers teach these as necessary elements of ministry, this is not the case. This is merely one method in history used to minister to people in a corporate fellowship setting. In fact, many churches and ministries today, including some evangelical ones, neglect both practices based on the fact that they generate large numbers of "false conversions."

What's the point? Be led of God. This is merely one method, and arguably not the most effective, though it may be most popular. Many of us, if we'd be honest, had personal experiences with God, outside of an altar call, that truly converted our hearts. It was in that intimate place that we were actually born again. While the altar call may have been instrumental in some cases, it certainly is not the only way.

Altar calls are not required, and the "Sinner's Prayer" is not biblical at all. In fact, it can be detrimental. A Scripture passage often cited during the traditional altar call is Romans 10:9-11. First, Paul wrote this passage to BELIEVERS, the church. It was not directed toward unbelievers. Second, this passage speaks of a heartfelt belief and confession. The question can be asked, if a person is repeating a prayer, is it really heart felt? One may argue that a sincere prayer, even if not filled with theological accuracy, is more pleasing to God.

Selah.

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"Christian" Vestments

FACT:

Almost 100% of the vestments worn by today's clergy come from pagan and Catholic traditions... NOT the old testament priests. After all, all who are born-again are part of the royal priesthood (1 Peter 2:9). All truly born-again believers are ministers (2 Corinthians 5:17-19). The veil has been rent. Thus, there is no biblical need or requirement for ministers, who happen to speak publicly, to dress differently than anyone else. It's merely preference and/or institutional protocol. There is no requirement for and NO ANOINTING in a clergy collar, robe, tunic, chasuble or otherwise.

Let's not lie to or deceive God's people. If clerical attire is the preference... okay. Let's not make it more than it is. If we tell God's people that we are following the tradition of God's priests, then we will follow the very detailed instruction God gave for that priestly attire. Ephods, anyone? Reference Exodus 28, 39

People of God, BE FREE! Stop going into debt to dress up like a pope or KKK grand wizard. Save your money. You carry the anointing in your spirit, not on your back. Selah.

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Back to the Basics | Christian Assembly

This is a "sticky" topic, but it needs to be addressed...

Those of us who have been "set" as ministers of the Gospel and overseers of God's house must remember that the local church, or Christian fellowship, is just that.  It's meant to be a fellowship of BELIEVERS who come together to encourage and edify one another.

Hebrews 10:24-25

24 Let us think of ways to motivate one another to acts of love and good works. 25 And let us not neglect our meeting together, as some people do, but encourage one another, especially now that the day of his return is drawing near.

We, as born-again believers... the Church of Jesus Christ, are commanded to fellowship for the purpose of encouragement, strength and biblical instruction.  Essentially, the "church" is not merely a building, nor was it ever.  It is the family of Christ through the Spirit of adoption, made possible through the blood of our Savior.

This fellowship of believers also serves as a "launching pad" through which servants are separated and sent into the world to build this same Church, the Body of Christ, the Kingdom of God.  Reference Acts 13:2-3; 14:23.

The fellowship of believers, often referred to as the "local church" or "Christian assembly" is also called as the governmental body of God's Kingdom in the earth.  As a Body, we are called to bring instruction, order, correction and love to one another.  Reference Ephesians 4:11-16; Matthew 18:16-17.

This "local church" or "Christian assembly" was established by the Apostles and has a set order which should be followed by New Covenant believers. Reference 2 Thessalonians 3:14; 1 Timothy 3:5.

With all of that being said, where in the world did we get this concept that the church is "a hospital for the sinner?"  That is NOT biblical.  You will NEVER see in Scripture where the sinful and rebellious gathered to worship God.  In fact, it's impossible, as those who worship a holy God must worship Him in Spirit and in truth (John 4:23-24).  We, who have been called to watch over God's assembly, cannot continue to entertain worldly things under the guise of "winning souls to Christ."  The biblical pattern for doing so is to GO INTO ALL THE WORLD AND PREACH THE GOSPEL (Matthew 28:18-20; Mark 16:15).  It is NOT the job of the church to make the worldly feel at home in God's house.

We should be (out) in the world, preaching the Gospel and showing the love of Christ to all.  Once they repent, and are baptized, we should then invite them into a joint fellowship - the same where we, as believers, gather strength from one another and welcome the presence of God.  This is the biblical model.  It's a dangerous thing to tell people that they should come into God's presence "as they are" without any reverence for who He is.  This is why the presence of our Father is so scarce.  He will not dwell among the unclean.  We are commanded to be holy as He is holy.

It is not my job, as a pastor or overseer of a congregation, to make anyone feel "comfortable" other than God, when we are gathered for worship and the study of His word.  In fact, we SHOULD feel uncomfortable if there is disobedience in our lives.  God's house is a place of repentance, worship and power.  It's a proverbial filling station for those who are truly doing the work we are called to do... giving to the poor, comforting the weak, caring for the widow, feeding the hungry and preaching Christ to the lost.  It is NOT a voting booth for the sinful who want to feel that they can belong.  It is NOT a 4-H club for people to plan entertaining events.  It is NOT a food truck to sell chicken and fish plates, trying to raise money for plays and community basketball games.  All of these things are secondary.  They do NOT define, nor are they necessary in God's house.

Additionally, Paul taught that we, as believers, should restore one another when a brother or sister falls into sin (Galatians 6:1-3).  If that brother or sister refuses to turn away from the sin, fellowship with them should cease until repentance comes to pass (Titus 3:10; 2 Thessalonians 3:6, 14).  They can't BUY a free pass.  They aren't entitled to a vote.  We are not to look the other way when blatant, unrepentant sin is present.  It may sound harsh, but it's the word of God... and IT WORKS!  It protects the honor and integrity of the SANCTUARY, which has (in many cases) become nothing more than a multi-purpose activity room.

When will the called and elect of God stop allowing the world to define how we worship?  How dare we allow anyone to demand that God's house be used for any ungodly purpose.  Could this be the reason for the powerless rhetoric we hear on a daily basis?  All talk, yet no power?  We really need to drop these 501(c)3 death contracts and seek God according to His own instruction.  It's not comfort that brings us to repentance.  So, if I truly believe that "Jesus saves", I want others to realize the need for Him.  He's a necessity, not an accessory!  When we make the "church" comfortable for those who refuse to follow Him, we rob them of a true experience with God, and quite possibly eternal life altogether.

The local assembly is for God's people.  If people don't feel comfortable because of sin... DUH!  That's the point!

IJS.  Selah.

Integrity in Business Dealings

"Woe to him who builds his house by unrighteousness and his [upper] chambers by injustice, who uses his neighbor’s service without wages and does not give him his pay [for his work]"   Jeremiah 22:13, NLT

God's people must be honest in our business dealings.  We should never be those who cheat or swindle others out of what is due to them.  As believers, we shouldn't always be the ones looking for a "hook up", because we understand that a workman is worthy of his wages.  We should be those who tip generously, even when service isn't necessarily flawless, because we understand grace and mercy.  We are those who offer the "best deals" to others, whenever possible, because we value service above self gain and esteem others greater than ourselves.  The measure of a man's heart can often be determined through his business practices.

When we truly have the heart of God, it extends beyond ministry.  Selah. 

Prophetic Foolery

I am extremely concerned with the present trend among believers, where regardless of what the Word of God says and despite godly counsel, "but God told me" or "I have to do what God said" has become an acceptable excuse for everything. We simply cannot dismiss God's written word and claim to have "heard" Him as a defense.

In a world of 7.2 billion people, none of us are so anointed that we should trust our own discernment even when we can't find just two or three to agree. Is there now no accountability, no correction, no filter, no standard, no measuring rod, no plumbline?

Yes, every believer should be able to hear from God.  Let's not forget though, that we can all hear from our own flesh as well.  We can all hear the voice of Satan too.  How do you know the difference?  RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD.  That comes through His word (John 10:5).  He will never contradict Himself and He cannot lie (Titus 1:2)!  He is not schizophrenic and He doesn't make special exceptions or pull favors (Romans 2:11).  We must also look to one another.  After all, God uses us to perfect one another (Proverbs 27:17; Ephesians 4:11-12). Godly counsel cannot be dismissed!  We, as saints, need one another.  We must be accountable.

NEWS FLASH: If Scriptures don't agree, and none of God's people agree, you may just be hearing the voice of the WRONG god. If you have a "word", but no power and no fruit, there's your sign! God doesn't punk His people. It could actually be YOU who is in error.

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1 Peter 1:20

"Knowing this first, that no prophecy of the scripture is of any private interpretation."

Romans 12:3

"For I say, through the grace given unto me, to every man that is among you, not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think; but to think soberly, according as God hath dealt to every man the measure of faith."

1 Corinthians 13:9

"For we know in part, and we prophesy in part."

1 Corinthians 14:29

"Let the prophets speak two or three, and let the other judge."

2 Corinthians 13:1

"In the mouth of two or three witnesses shall every word be established."

2 Timothy 4:3-4

"For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears; And they shall turn away their ears from the truth, and shall be turned unto fables."

Proverbs 11:14

"Where no counsel is, the people fall: but in the multitude of counsellors there is safety."

Loose Them, and Let Them Go!!!

For many of us, loosing is something we command demons to do.  "Loose her, and let her go!" is an action we'd expect to hear in a deliverance session.  I contend we need to hear this more in respect to leaders in the Lord's Church.  Loose them and let them go!!!

The purpose of the church is to edify, instruct and nurture believers to maturity.  But, then what?  Why develop mature leaders just to deny them the opportunity to walk in their purpose?  We've mastered, in many cases, training people to follow our own visions and support our own efforts.  However, we tend to miss the winning and gathering of souls, which is directly linked to our hesitation when it comes to sending God's people into purpose.

We live in a nation where young men and women, between the ages of 18 and 21, are invited to endure just eight to twelve weeks of "basic" training before being issued a job and a gun.  Despite their ages or apparent immaturity, our government trusts the process.  A sense of pride, responsibility and purpose is instilled in these young people, and for the most part, they are successful.

So, what is our excuse as the church?  Certainly, I believe in and support training.  I value education.  Even more, I encourage and practice discipleship.  I also understand, however, that discipleship doesn't require stagnation.  Even in our armed forces, the training doesn't stop simply because basic training is complete.  Yet, the work happens alongside the specialized training.  As such, our biblical model is one of "on the job" training.

What if we, as leaders, learned to trust God's process?

Among the prophets and teachers of the church at Antioch of Syria were Barnabas, Simeon (called “the black man”), Lucius (from Cyrene), Manaen (the childhood companion of King Herod Antipas), and Saul.  One day as these men were worshiping the Lord and fasting, the Holy Spirit said, “Dedicate Barnabas and Saul for the special work to which I have called them.”  So after more fasting and prayer, the men laid their hands on them and sent them on their way.  Acts 13:1-3

According to the process, men are born again.  They are baptized and filled with the Holy Ghost.  They fellowship and edify one another.  They are discipled and spend time in worship.  Then, when God speaks, they are sent away to do a work.  That's it!  There is no need to dress up, develop a program and invite a speaker.  No one cares if the appropriate bishop or apostle is in the room.  It's out of an atmosphere of unified prayer and worship that miracles and ministry calls come forth.

Notice that even Paul and Barnabus were not required to complete a course or serve any particular length of time "in training" or "in service" before they were sent.  With all our biblical examples, we see many instances of those who are sent and appointed.  The key is not what they've accomplished in the natural, but the call God has placed upon them.  Notice that in the word of God there are no ministry interviews, qualification exams or annual convocations for which people were required to "wait" before obeying God.

I'm convinced that the church is losing out on the ability to reach more souls, at least partially due to our tendency to feel that those called must be justified by us, as if God's call is not sufficient.  Let's be honest... how many of us were "ready" (in the eyes of our peers) when God called us?  While we must live lives of holiness, sanctification and obedience to God, we all make mistakes, and it's okay.  By the grace of God, we learn from them.  Look at the lives of Peter, Paul, Timothy and others.  They all made mistakes, and they LEARNED WHILE WORKING.  They remained accountable and received both rebuke and encouragement from one another WHILE WORKING.  The greatest teacher is not one's pastor or apostle, but the Holy Ghost.  So, why should we rob others of the best lessons they could possibly learn.  When God instructs us to send, it out NOT our job nor responsibility to qualify that call.  It's our responsibility to obey, pray for and support them in the work.

Yes, discipleship should continue.  Training should continue.  Maturity should continue.  Yet the work must go forth.  We've got to trust the process.  Trust God and simply obey Him when He speaks.  Loose them, and let them go!  After all, God's people are just that... GOD'S people, not ours.  Selah.

Who Offended You, Exactly?

Are you confronted or convicted?

In the realm of ministry, I am often confronted by people who are offended by something that is said during the act of sharing God's word.  Unfortunately, there is always someone who takes the message personally or even feels they are purposely being attacked.

While it is not my heart, nor my style, to publicly address private matters, I often wonder if we, as the church, have forgotten about the Holy Spirit.  So often, when we feel guilty within ourselves, we lean to anger and resentment toward a person rather than repentance.

I want to admit something... As a prophet, I often have NO IDEA who God is dealing with when I deliver a corporate message or share a public note.  I simply share what God gives me.  So, when people take it personal, they often profess feelings and actions I was completely unaware of.  If only we knew how much we expose our own guilt in the face of correction!

And another secret... I feel bad when people are offended.  I never seek to personally hurt anyone's feelings, and it's simply against my nature to "blast" someone in public.  However, I can't take it back.  While I didn't mean it personally, perhaps God did.

Here's the heart of the matter... we need to decide, whenever offense comes, the root of our concern.  Should we really be upset with the messenger, or is the Holy Ghost simply using someone to bring conviction to us?

Yes, there are some that are just mean and disrespectful.  They will publish your "dirty laundry" and tear you down in public.  BUT, there are many more men and women of God who would never disrespect or purposely hurt God's people.  So, how can you determine whether your rebuke is spiritual conviction or a personal vendetta?

1. Check the source.  Do you know the messenger?  Consider their heart... past actions and your relationship (if any) to them.
2. Is it true?  Enough said.
3. Has confidentiality been breached?  In other words, if a distant friend or family member heard the same message, would they be able to link it directly to you?  If not, chances are you may be taking things too personal.
4. Will the correction bring you closer to God?
5. Is it wise counsel?  Does it make good sense?
6. Consider the mood and/or demeanor of the messenger and the spirit in which the message is delivered.

Especially in this world of social media, where people are "extra sensitive" to the words of leaders in the church, always looking for something wrong -- we must be careful to discern.  When anger begins to rise... with whom are we really angry?  The messenger or the Holy Ghost?

Just one last note... if you ever feel a message is too personal or used as a weapon, confront the messenger.  Talk it through before taking offense.  Chances are that a misunderstanding has taken place.  Never allow assumption to cause you to miss God!

2 Corinthians 7:8-10, NLT

8 I am not sorry that I sent that severe letter to you, though I was sorry at first, for I know it was painful to you for a little while. 9 Now I am glad I sent it, not because it hurt you, but because the pain caused you to repent and change your ways. It was the kind of sorrow God wants his people to have, so you were not harmed by us in any way. 10 For the kind of sorrow God wants us to experience leads us away from sin and results in salvation. There’s no regret for that kind of sorrow. But worldly sorrow, which lacks repentance, results in spiritual death.

Stop Playing Dead

Last night, I had a dream that spoke volumes to me.  I was running from an attacker who was trying to kill me.  I was so afraid that I never looked to see if he had any weapons.  While I was running, I didn't even know his face… only that I was in danger.

After running for quite some time, I finally ducked into a corner and hid.  The attacker slowed down and began looking for me.  Finally, he found me and pulled me out onto some concrete.  He started kicking me.  I was so afraid that I never even noticed he was unarmed.  So, I played dead, hoping he would spare me, and he did.  Eventually he ran off.

I lay there, playing dead, until police arrived.  With them, of course, was the assailant.  When I looked at him, I knew immediately… he was absolutely NO THREAT.  In fact, if I hadn't run, he would have never chased me.  IT WAS A CASE OF MISTAKEN IDENTITY.  If I'd stood up for myself and allowed him to see my face, he never would have attacked.  He simply thought I was someone else!!!  Now, I was upset and embarrassed.  Why did I run, in the first place?  Why was I afraid?  Why did I give up life, even for a moment, by playing dead?  Why didn't I show him who I was?

The Lord spoke very clearly to me about the same.  He said His people need to stop playing dead.  Within the church walls and without, fear has gripped God’s people, and many are rendering their voices silent due to fear that is unsubstantiated.  Because we are afraid to be judged, afraid someone will not like us, afraid our character will be attacked… we play dead.  Not only are we silent, but we actually act as if we have no anointing, no call and no assignment.

If you are born again, you have a voice that God wants to use.  The Holy Spirit wants to be expressed through us.  Why do we act as if we have nothing to contribute?  For some of us, the enemy has caused us to believe in a threat that isn't even present.  We disobey God because of what MIGHT happen… because of what someone MIGHT do… because of what they MIGHT say or think.

In all actuality, if we would just obey God, others will see HIM in us.  Whether they accept us or not, our willingness to be used of God also guarantees our protection.  Many of us are enduring persecution for all the wrong reasons... simply because people don't know who you are in Christ.  You have been mistaken for someone else... someone who is weak and powerless.  Stop it!

Stop playing dead!!!  Let me help you… DENYING YOUR POWER AND YOUR CALL IS NOT HUMILITY!  You are very much alive.  You have a voice.  You have a call.  You are anointed.  Stop running.  Stop hiding.  Live and share the life that is in you!

Amen.

Deception, Even when Justified, is Still a Lie!

We, as leaders in the Church of Jesus Christ, monitor and tailor our messages a lot, based on the fact that some may abuse, twist, or misrepresent what we say. God would remind us that we are NOT called to the disobedient, except to bring correction. We are called to teach and nurture those who hear and obey the voice of God.

I have been "cautioned" many times that people will take my messages and run with them... that I am causing havoc in the church. I've been told by many leaders that while they are aware of the truth about a certain subject, that they can't preach the truth, because the people can't handle it. Deception, even with a justification, is still a lie!

If we are aware of some who will twist and abuse the truth, we need to rebuke those few.  We DO NOT deceive others to keep the exception under control.  That's crazy!

Speak the truth. Let God deal with those who may abuse the message. Stop sacrificing the good of God's remnant out of caution for those who don't obey Him anyway.

Selah.

Hear, Touch and Send!

"One day as these men were worshiping the Lord and fasting, the Holy Spirit said, “Dedicate Barnabas and Saul for the special work to which I have called them.” So after more fasting and prayer, the men laid their hands on them and sent them on their way."    Acts 13:2-4, NLT


This world has no shortage of anointing and power.  God has done His part by setting aside, calling and empowering a remnant.  Now, we as leaders must do our part.  We need to RELEASE God's weapons in the earth!

We cannot continue to bind who/what has been loosed in the heavens!

I've been guilty, due to tradition and man-made doctrines.  We don't have time to hold up God's plan.  There are too many called and anointed vessels waiting to be SENT.  Let's obey God.  It's not our job to filter those God has called.  We are to confirm it and obey WITHOUT DELAY.  Paul and Barnabas didn't have to wait for papers or a service.  That's luxury, not necessity.  In this season, we don't have time for the "extra."  Lay hands on them and LET THEM GO FORTH in the things of God!

The church should be a turn key organism where people are constantly coming in and being sent out.  Let's go!!!  Selah.

Only One Opinion Really Matters

"There is a way which seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death."  Proverbs 14:12


Refrain from making decisions based on the opinions of others.  Oftentimes, we find ourselves looking for a quorum to support the decisions and actions we take without considering the one voice that matters... God's voice!

Of course, God can and will speak through other people.  At the end of the day, however, no matter how many people have given you advice, YOU are accountable for the action you take... YOU ALONE!

So, make sure the voice you obey is that of God.  The vessel doesn't matter, but the message certainly does.  Remember, you can have an overwhelming vote from men and still disappoint God.

Selah.

Just JOY

I normally don't explain "personal" things on social media, but I do want to address a question here. It's a valid question and one that I feel deserves an explanation.

I've been asked, on a few occasions, whether an academic title is more important than a spiritual one. It was interpreted by some, because I formally sign my name as "Dr. Joy Allen", that I esteem my academic accomplishments above my spiritual gifts and call. I would like to address this question, because I know similar assumptions have been made about other leaders who follow the same practice.

In short, absolutely not! While I worked hard to get through school, my ordained assignment for God is a life-long commitment and privilege... it's my purpose and my destiny. Because it's so significant, I don't necessarily feel that my Kingdom assignments should be diminished to a title.

Those of you who know me well know that I have NEVER been a big fan of titles. Personally, my mother named me 'Joy', and I LOVE MY NAME! I do recognize, however, that titles have their place. They are a part of our culture. In some cases, they are likened unto a hospital sign. People need to know where to go in order to get what they need. On the other hand, the way we typically use titles is not biblical. We all know that. As I said, it's more cultural than necessary.

With that, I do refrain from using a title in many arenas, for many reasons. One very large reason is that people become bound by it. Here's the bottom line... I have to be free to do what God tells me to do, and that assignment may change from day to day or even from moment to moment. I've spent years of my life hearing what I should or shouldn't do because God called me to be this or that. Hog wash! 

For example, if an ordained Evangelist prophesies to someone, they are rebuked for not being a prophet. If an acknowledged Prophet lays hands on believers and sends them on assignment, they are rebuked for not being an apostle. Well, that's error. Have you noticed that those who have no title, or those who simply use their academic titles don't have so much drama with the church? Sad, but true. Who has time for the red tape? I'm not saying we should operate out of order. I'm just saying a title shouldn't perpetuate control. Think about it...

Another reason I often refrain from the use is that titles tend to distance people. When I am ministering to someone, particularly an "unchurched" person, the last thing I want to do is treat them like I'm above them, or otherwise special. No. My job is to relate and build a rapport so I can share the love of God with them. In many of those cases, sharing a title is neither necessary nor appropriate.

For me, my main concern is my assignment. God will grace and gift me to do whatever He requires of me. I don't have time now, nor have I ever, to wait around for someone to give me a piece of paper with another title on it just so I can get to work and obey God. That's not the will of God in any way, form or fashion. The practice of the New Testament church was to hear God, lay hands and send. So, I certainly do believe in spiritual affirmation. That doesn't, however, include the attachment of a title.

So, as strange as it may seem to some, I've found that using "Dr." in some arenas is just easier. It doesn't cause the distractions I often face with having to explain a bunch of stuff. It gives a sense of satisfaction and "authority" for those regular church goers who need to see a title to feel comfortable. However, it doesn't distance those who are uncomfortable with the use of titles. Plus, it's universal. I minister in arenas where pastors are called by their first names, and IT'S NOT CONSIDERED TO BE DISRESPECTFUL. I like that, because I also do not (and never have) subscribe to the belief that the Body of Christ is a hierarchy where leaders, or clergy, are higher or better than the "laity." I don't believe that's the message taught to us by the word of God. We are all children of God, and if truly born-again, we are all co-laborers in Christ... we are ALL called to be ministers of the Gospel, in some capacity.

So, there you have it... the short (or maybe not) version of my decision. Prayerfully, this will give others something to consider and think about. Trust me when I tell you... I honor every assignment God has given me, because He didn't have to choose me at all! Don't put me in a box, because God hasn't. While I certainly have some gifts stronger than others, I've operated as a teacher, an evangelist, a pastor, a prophet and an apostle at different times during my walk (as have most of the true servants of Christ I know). I will continue to serve in any arena God requires.

I'm humbled and thankful for every opportunity to bring God glory. At the end of the day, my name doesn't matter. My title doesn't matter. My ministry spans many different cultures and types of people. I want them all to know and respect God, rather than me. Did God get the glory? That's what matters.

I pray this helps someone. Love ya'll.

from Your Sister in Christ (that's what matters most)
Just JOY 

P.S. -- For the record, I always refer to others in a manner that makes THEM feel respected, title or not. I recommend we all operate that way.

Stop Shooting the Messenger!

Am I therefore become your enemy, because I tell you the truth?

Galatians 4:16

As a Christian leader, it's very difficult to deal with the prideful spirit of entitlement that so many carry today.  Constantly, I'm asked how people can draw closer to God... how they can grow spiritually... how they can hear from the Father.  Well, the answer has always been the same.  Like any relationship, one with God requires commitment.  His word commands that we study and meditate on Scripture, spend time with Him in prayer and worship, and fellowship with believers.  Without faith, it's impossible to please Him, and we demonstrate our love for Him by following His commandments.

Yet, just like the slow people in the drive-through at McDonald's, it's as if people are always looking for a different answer... a short cut.  Just like the McDonald's menu, God's word, and His requirements, have been the same since the beginning.  Our lack of desire to discipline ourselves, submit and be accountable will not change His mind.

As the messenger (and that is truly all that I am), I am often the recipient of the anger, bitterness, ridicule and frustration that comes from people who simply don't want to hear the truth.  While I'm not surprised, it does often hurt.  It is very difficult not to take it personal.  It hurts because I truly love people and have a desire to see them grow.  Unfortunately, many choose not to see the same.  Instead, they'd rather compare me to the last leader they had or "just another Christian" who's all about money and trying to make spiritual things diffiult for others.  Why does it have to be that way?  Am I (or any other person) not entitled to being judged by my own fruit or the investments I make in people prior to their point of offense?  Does my being a pastor or leader negate that I too am a person with feelings... an individual desiring love and respect?  Let's remember, we are ALL people, and we must treat one another as we desire to be treated, regardless of one's "position" in the church.

The Kingdom of God, in one sense, is likened unto a bank account.  If we don't make deposits, there will be nothing to withdraw.  There are no exceptions and no excuses!  We can't expect God to meet our every need yet refuse to do what's necessary to maintain those healthy relationships.  In the same manner, it's unfair to expect our brothers and sisters in Christ, including our spiritual leaders, to consistently be available, share advice, and nurse our wounds when we refuse to heed their advise, wisdom and counsel.

Love is full of truth.  At the end of the day, our hunger for God and knowing the fullness of Him will not cause us to become angry just because we hear, yet again, what we know to be the truth.  We should learn to stop making excuses and just obey God.  It works.  If something is not working, that's not the leader's fault by default, especially if they are preaching, teaching and demonstrating the truth.  We need to look inwardly as well to see where we, personally, have missed with God.

1 Timothy 4:2-4 warns us of this very thing:

Preach the word; be instant in season, out of season; reprove, rebuke, exhort with all long suffering and doctrine. For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears; And they shall turn away their ears from the truth, and shall be turned unto fables.

These times are upon us.  Some people just want things their way.  Whether it's truth or a lie, they want to hear what they want to hear.  They want to be in control, and they will always find fault in the very ones seeking to help them... because it's easier than admitting fault within themselves.

I am praying for so many, and humbly pray God will even keep my own heart from turning that way.  I'm saddened, hurt and disappointed.  There are few things worse than seeing the potential in someone who cannot see it in themselves.  It's very difficult to love those who refuse to accept your love, or even believe it exists.  It's heartbreaking to watch people turn against you just to run to those that mean them no good, yet tell them what they want to hear.

My prayer is that people will see another side of their personal frustration... to understand it's NOT ABOUT US.  This is bigger than any one individual, including myself.  Not everyone is out to "get you."  God loves us so much that He has strategically placed others in our lives to help us draw closer to Him.  We just need to stop biting the proverbial hand that feeds us.  

I want to encourage not only leaders, but all believers experiencing this type of frustration.  After all, EVERY believer is a minister of Christ with the responsibility to share the Gospel.  There are souls at stake... hold on!  Don't you dare give up.  It's worth the fight!  Someone's soul may be dependent upon you pressing through one more disappointment.  Even if you never see the fruit, continue to plant the seeds God commands you to plant.

All in all, I am full of love and have compassion, but I REFUSE to change the message.  I also have a responsbility to please God, and no one's desire for a cover up is worth risking that.  Even if I die today, God's message remains the same.

Amen.

Women, Let's Deal with Lust and Seduction in the Church

The spirit of lust is very subtle, yet strong.  Despite what many believe, this spirit is not always demonstrated through fornication, adultery or another bold act of sexual sin.  Lustful spirits, unfortunately, have overtaken many in the church.

As a female, I want to encourage my sisters, including some who may not recognize this spirit upon them.  Lust is often paired with seduction, or the desire to be seducing.  It is evident in us, ladies, when we dress a certain way or adorn our bodies for the sole purpose of getting attention, even if it's not entertained.

I'm concerned to see so many young ladies and women in the church, even among those in ministry, who are falling prey to this deception.  There is a difference between looking nice, carrying oneself as a lady, and trying to be "sexy" for anyone other than your husband.  The longing for attention... the desire or misconception that every man "wants you" is something that needs to be dealt with.  This deception quickly opens the door to ungodly imaginations, pride, envy, arrogance or even a sense of rejection, when the desired attention is not returned.  Even more, this need for attention can eventually lead to fornication and other sexual immorality, including pornography and masturbation.

Some signs of this spirit (in women) include:

- A heightened concern over one's appearance

- Changes in the way one dresses (subtle provocative enhancements, such as suddenly showing cleavage)

- Thoughts about what others, typically men, think of your appearance

- An obsession with oneself, which may be expressed through arrogant conversation about one's good looks and/or the excessive sharing of "selfies" on social media

- The idea that everyone sees one in a sexual manner

- Temptation to indulge in sexual sin

- The need for attention and validation of one's appearance from others

- Allowing a relationship to become to familiar; anticipating interaction with a particular person for the attention, rather than the purpose of the relationship

- Sexual thoughts or fantasy about a person who is "off limits"

- Concern about a person that exceeds "your business" (wondering what their favorite meal may be or what they would do in imaginary scenarios that involve you)

There are many more, but I just want to bring attention to these few and really expose the enemy.  Women of God, we need to be on guard.  Some of us need to step up and become the "mothers" so many churches now lack.  If this spirit is toying with you, get help in the form of prayer and deliverance.  If you see it in others, approach your sister in love.  Correct, rebuke, and when necessary, cast it out!

Selah.

Stop Rebuking Questions You Can't Answer!

My heart breaks for those, especially young people, who have questions about their faith that ministers, leaders and "older" saints refuse to answer.  We have now a generation who wants answers.  It does no good to dismiss their sincere inquiries.  In this day and age of knowledge and information, it's imperative that we rightly divide the word of truth and share from a sincere relationship with God, rather than rebuking and dismissing those who ask questions we are frankly unable to answer.  Let's just be honest and prayerfully seek God for revelation when we don't know.  Let's partner with them to pray, search the Scriptures, study the word and history to find solutions.

Remember, we shall know the TRUTH, and the TRUTH shall make us free (John 8:32)!  Don't give the enemy credit for bringing truth to the surface.  That's God's doing, even if it makes us feel uncomfortable!  Faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the word of God (Romans 10:17)... not the traditions in which we are comfortable or the misguided interpretations of Scripture so many of us have accepted without responsibility to know God, and His word, for ourselves.

Questions, when of a pure and sincere heart, are not evil.  Remember, those closest to Jesus called him Rabbi.  TEACHING was His specialty during His time on this earth.  Let's follow suit.

"Instead, you must worship Christ as Lord of your life. And if someone asks about your hope as a believer, always be ready to explain it."
1 Peter 3:15, NLT

Church Spies?

Excuse my vent, but really?

We have "spies" in the church now?  There are literally people to think it their duty to watch and listen to everything you say and do just so they can report it to someone that will hopefully bring you down?  Let me say, I'm not at all angry.  In fact, I'm not even surprised.  I am tickled pink... amused, though disappointed.  It's simply disturbing that we have people spending time looking for the faults in others -- not sinners or liars, but those doing Kingdom work -- just so they can report it with the intent to sow discord.

If anyone wants to know what I'm doing, just ask.  I'm an open book.  I make mistakes, but I'm not at all ashamed of the works God has called me to do nor the words He commands me to speak.  Please know that I love God's people.  I'm not hiding anything.  If anyone wants to know anything (and has the right to know), just ask.

With that said, leaders, please be encouraged.  This is just part of the call!  Be careful of those who speak on your behalf and be just as careful of those who are quick to whisper in your ear about what another is doing.  We don't have time to attack one another.  "If a kingdom be divided against itself, that kingdom cannot stand!"

We have a Savior to watch for.  We should be preparing His Bride.  We need to know them that labor among us so we will not be distracted by every report.  Most of all, we must walk in integrity.  Remember, every tongue that rises against you in judgment will be condemned!!!  That's the heritage of those who serve the Lord!

As much as I hate to believe it, some people just like drama.  Don't become a star in their reality show.  LOL!

Love you all.  Now back to Kingdom business...  *SMILE*

I Am a Woman

Titus 2:3-5
Similarly, teach the older women to live in a way that honors God. They must not slander others or be heavy drinkers. Instead, they should teach others what is good. These older women must train the younger women to love their husbands and their children, to live wisely and be pure, to work in their homes, to do good, and to be submissive to their husbands. Then they will not bring shame on the word of God.

I am NOT a feminist, by any means.  I believe God meant what He said when He set order to the home.  My prayer is that I will never bring shame to the word of God.  I love to preach the Gospel, and I'm thankful that there is no Jew nor Greek, male nor female in the Spirit.  At home, though, I have a place that cannot be neglected.  That's my FIRST ministry.

Lord, help me to be the woman of God I was created to be.  If I do my job as a wife and as a mother, then I can preach the Gospel with integrity and power, leading by example as a doer of the word, and not a hearer only.

I am a woman... and I'm liberated through holiness!

Get in Line and Follow the Teacher

NO ONE knows everything!

Romans 12:6, NLT

"Live in harmony with each other. Don’t be too proud to enjoy the company of ordinary people. And don’t think you know it all!"

We must be reminded that spiritual leaders are just that.  Their job is to lead us to Christ.  Yet, they cannot assign us an identity.  They cannot solve all our problems.  Believe it or not, they can't even answer all our questions.  That is NOT their job, and any leader who attempts to do so is out of order.

Christian leaders are merely a means to an end.  It is our job to point others to Christ as a source... never ourselves.  We make mistakes.  We have limits, and again... WE DON'T KNOW EVERYTHING!

Spiritual leaders are not meant to run your life or make decisions on your behalf.  They can pray for you.  They can teach you Scripture.  They can provide godly example and direction.  But please, LIVE YOUR LIFE!  Don't look to a leader to approve your every move or every word.  That's idolatry, and it doesn't please God.

Christian leaders are to be respected, but never feared.  They pose no threat to you if indeed they are called and sent of God.  Learn to discern their opinions from God's word.  There is a difference.  Don't confuse the two, as this is a dangerous error to make.

I will admit, I have a major pet peeve with people who must get permission from their leader for everything, especially business in their own home.  That's just NOT the spirit of God. YouR leader has no jurisdiction there!  Sure, they can pray and provide godly counsel when solicited, but they shouldn't control you and every aspect of your life, ESPECIALLY your marriage, your children, your finances, etc.

Please, let's keep things in proper perspective.  A good leader will teach you to be a disciple of CHRIST, not merely him or herself.  A good leader will make you dependent on God, not him or herself.  A good leader wants you to hear God's voice for yourself, not just through him or her.  A good leader wants you to grow and will not be intimidated by your anointing, even if it seems to "outshine" or overpower their own.  A good leader will nurture your gifts and encourage their use, not limit, control or use them for personal gain. A good leader will work WITH you, respecting your opinions and areas of expertise. A good leader will LEARN FROM YOU and BE ACCOUNTABLE TO YOU just as much (if not more) as you are to them.

In kindergarten, my class was always required to walk in a line.  Sometimes, I would stand behind Ruthie.  Sometimes, I'd stand behind Aaron.  Sometimes Steve or another student.  I followed them, but only as they followed the teacher.  When they stepped forward or moved to the right, so did I.  I followed my classmate, as long as they followed the teacher.  I followed my classmate, at times, when I couldn't see the teacher for myself.  Yet, even as a kindergarten student, I understood the goal was ultimately to FOLLOW THE TEACHER. Since I understood the goal, even when a classmate got out of line, I stayed on course, because I kept my focus and attention on the teacher.

Who are you really following?  If your leader gets out of line, will you follow them, or will you find the TEACHER?  Think about it!

ORDER IN THE CHURCH!

FALSE PROPHETS, Be Warned!

People of God, please be warned that many have become false prophets without even noticing it.  There is such a lack of respect for God’s word, and the Father is not pleased with this activity.

Each and every day, so-called “prophetic” words are simply thrown out by any and everyone.  People seem very quick to note “God said” or “the Lord told me to tell you”.  PLEASE, consider the source and consider the message.  Most importantly, be mindful of what YOU say in the name of the Lord.  This includes, of course, the many things we share over social media and networks.

We have literally reduced the precious, living Word of God to clichés and get rich quick schemes of deception and witchcraft. 

·         This is a word for somebody.  God is going to enlarge your territory today.  Claim it!

·         God said that those who forward this email will have an unexpected check in the mail within 24 h ours.

·         The Lord spoke to me in a dream and said “Increase!”

This is the type of foolishness we see and hear every day.  God is NOT a sorcerer.  He does not deal in potions, and contrary to popular opinion, He has not and never will use everyone as His mouthpiece.

Please, let’s be more careful about attributing our own hopes, imaginations and clichés to God.  This is VERY dangerous territory.  God hates a lying tongue (Proverbs 6:16-19) and will bring judgment to everyone who declares “God said” when He hasn't spoken or instructed them to speak on His behalf.

God is not haphazard concerning His word.  Be warned.  Be careful.  Selah.

Jeremiah 23:21-22,25-31, KJV

²¹ I have not sent these prophets, yet they ran: I have not spoken to them, yet they prophesied.

²² But if they had stood in my counsel, and had caused my people to hear my words, then they should have turned them from their evil way, and from the evil of their doings.

²⁵ I have heard what the prophets said, that prophesy lies in my name, saying, I have dreamed, I have dreamed.

²⁶ How long shall this be in the heart of the prophets that prophesy lies? yea, they are prophets of the deceit of their own heart;

²⁷ Which think to cause my people to forget my name by their dreams which they tell every man to his neighbour, as their fathers have forgotten my name for Baal.

²⁸ The prophet that hath a dream, let him tell a dream; and he that hath my word, let him speak my word faithfully. What is the chaff to the wheat? saith the Lord.

²⁹ Is not my word like as a fire? saith the Lord; and like a hammer that breaketh the rock in pieces?

³⁰ Therefore, behold, I am against the prophets, saith the Lord, that steal my words every one from his neighbour.

³¹ Behold, I am against the prophets, saith the Lord, that use their tongues, and say, He saith.

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